However, of course, this varies. My husband, in his past, has been to some pretty crazy stripper joints overseas that had live sex acts and such! I am therefore assuming the usual North American strip club with rules about touching and the like. She definitely was a lot more…um…interactive with him than I have seen in clubs. Obviously your Dear Fiance does not need to participate in this at all. He can leave when the stripper arrives and they can do whatever I do not buy into the argument of peer pressure, if he is a strong man he will leave if that is important to him but at the same time…but as I said before in some cases these can be illegal which adds a whole new element.