Because insecure men are unattractive. I never told guys to be insecure about this. I genuinely do not care much about size and I think it's sad that guys freak out over it so much. I'm not saying that the insecurity is a deal breaker either, just that it would be nice for me AND him if it could be avoided. How would you feel if you were with a girl who constantly talked about her insecurity over, for example, her breast size, and wouldn't listen when you told her you like them how they are? Don't blame me for not wanting to. There is a difference between saying something is a deal breaker and saying it doesn't matter AT ALL. Why is this so hard to acknowledge?