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Not long after we married, my companion Chris sent me a stranger's dick pic from a Craigslist ad. It was the escalation of a banter that began when we met. Chris was not long out of an open marriage at the time after that he wanted to continue that candidness. I didn't have any moral doubt to nonmonogamy but thought, It's not for me. We fell into open-minded fidelity by default. He travels abnormal days per year; our time all together was too precious to share. It never went further and that was fine with me.