5 Things You MUST Watch Out For As A 'Submissive' Seeking Your First 'Dom/Domme'

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By Anabelle Bernard Fournier. So many men! So little time! So much kink to be explored! I joined the local kink communityand I opened up my heart — and my bed — to new partners. However, for submissive women and men looking for a Dominant, things can go really wrong, really fast. We've all heard at least one horror story of someone who was abused or injured by a careless or not-caring-at-all Dominant. To stay on that safe side, here are 5 red flags to watch out for as you cruise dating sites, apps and kink communities — online or off.

I miss it. How do I achieve such a person? I can help! This is actually a complicated question… maybe even more complicated than you realize. You mention that you avoid it, so you are experienced all the rage BDSM. Are you interested in body tied up or otherwise restrained bondage? Are you interested in punishment discipline? Are you submissive what kind? Are you a slave do you appreciate the difference?

After that how do you know this person will be a good fit designed for your fantasies? Asking sounds easy, right? Stranger from the Internet: Hey sexy, wow your boobs are big. I love my face sat on, accede to my mouth and nose be your seat. Stranger from the Internet: You will bow down to me after I come into your bedroom. A lot of BDSM-minded folks, much like in vanilla dating, have a checklist of things they want to experience. Lots of us have fetish lists or wishlists or what I call 'fucket lists'. Letting the list drive the interactions with new power exchange partners be able to be misleading and a turn bad. A more effective approach is asking the right questions and having a sense of the answers that would get you off the most.

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