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Sex Positive Cocktail Party ONLINE Dec 3, 2015 7pm (PST)

How often do you talk openly and honestly about your sexual history and current sex life?

For most people that is very rare.

Yet opening up in a safe environment with others who are interested in such an engaging topic can be a highly liberating and educational experience.

The folks at the educational sex shop The Art of Loving have devised a wonderful way to do that. They call it the Sex Positive Cocktail Party and their staff hosts the gatherings in-person.


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by Karen Elstone

Hot and humid
We make passionate love
All bodily fluids combine…
Boundaries disappear…

We swim together as one
It’s as if nothing else exists
When we kiss…
Sometimes a hot passion…
Other times a warm tenderness
It doesn’t matter either way
There is a sense of eternity

With or without words
We communicate
We sense each other’s needs
There is a constant desire to take care
Of one another

We do not have to make love
but hold on to…
and feel the smooth contours
of each other’s body


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Sex Research

The Moral Necessity of Comprehensive Sex Education

Author Name: 
Victoria Bryers
Date Paper Written: 
Tue, 08/05/2008
Langara College

This paper examines the conflicting views regarding childhood and adolescent sexual education and the moral frame works from which they developed. Explored issues include childhood exposure to such contentious topics as homosexuality, masturbation, non coital play and alternative relationship forms and what values, if any, should be stressed. It is argued that only comprehensive sex education fulfills the conditions of a functional morality that allows everyone to lead happy, meaningful and productive lives.